If it's all in the hands of G-d, why bother with the mumbo-jumbo? And if it's kosher to use 'natural' medicine in an attempt to foil His will, why not use real medicine?
One points for the parents. Chemo is bad for anyone, it kills the immune systems cells...
to begin with my deepest symphathy to Tamar's family,it is very easy for others outside of the situation to give their brave opinion,my mother too passed away of the same cancer your daughter had, unfortunantely not even going through chemo saved her life but made her last day much more terrible, it just made her more ill & accelerated her death,really there was no chance she would survive & I regret having allowed my mother going through chemo.chemo or alternative therapy we tried both,the truth is that she was going to die anyways.what others don't understand is that it's not your fault, the alternative therapy did not kill your daughter o not going through chemo...please don't allow these negative comments destroy you.I understand all the the impotence you felt and wanting to do what you thought would save her life. in your heart you know that & so does God. may your little angel rest in peace