Baby’s death highlights stress of parenting triplets, says support group

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Mon, 16 Jan 2012 6:21p.m.

The Topia triplets, prior to Hinekawa's death. They are now minus a sister and in CYF care with their older brother

The Topia triplets, prior to Hinekawa's death. They are now minus a sister and in CYF care with their older brother

By Rachel Tiffen

Whanganui police are interviewing the whanau of two-month-old Hinekawa Topia as they try to piece together how she was killed.

Hinekawa was a triplet and a support group for multiple births says there are extra demands on the parents of such families.

Instead of one bundle of joy, Whanganui mother Tiffany Topia got three.

But last Thursday, somehow something went tragically wrong.

Hinekawa was taken to Whanganui Hospital not breathing where her head injuries proved fatal and were found to be non-accidental.

Fiona Purchase, who heads the Multiple Birth Association, says rearing one baby is tough enough.

“Every time when you're feeding, for example, it can take a cycle of an hour and a half to two hours to feed twins,” she says. “By the time you get up in the night, by the time you get to bed, that happens every three to four hours.”

Such demands require support not just from family, but also from groups such as Ms Purchase’s organisation.

“There are increased financial costs and often loss income because many fathers take time off work to help in the home,” she says.

Two of the surviving triplet and their five-year-old brother were also brought to Whanganui Hospital to be checked for injuries. They were expected to be released today into the care of Child, Youth and Family while the police investigation is underway.

Police have searched and seized evidence from two houses as they try to figure out how these three sisters became two.

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17 Jan 2012 12:16a.m.

mother of triplets + 1 wrote:

I turned on my computer this morning,and my google news page came up , with this tragic story of 2 month old triplet Hinekawa Topia .I sat and read what had happened,my eyes glassed over and all my memories and hard times 11 years ago when i to gave birth to Triplets [3 girls ]and when they were born my son was 18 months old. So many people say how kool triplets,ive always wanted twins or triplets.I am a hard worker,and have had a lot of challenges put before me in my life but being the mum of 3 babies + 1,almost broke me,i cant stress more how hard it was.When my girls were born i didnt have anybody contact me from any organisation or support group at all,i was told about them but for the first 12months there is just not the time to sit and try and get in contact with these sorts of people,if they had of come to my door i would have welcomed them with open arms.I believe that some mums with one baby could need that vital help just as much as a mum of three babies.From what i have read these precious little girls have been looked after by more than one care giver since they were born,i dont think that anybody can understand how hard it is to feed,change,clothe,get to sleep and lets not forget love and enjoy 3 babies at once,ther is no excuse what so ever for what has happened but i believe we are not doing even half of what we should be doing to look after our under 5 year old children in New Zealand.This is a true TRAGEDY to a precious baby girl.

16 Jan 2012 10:23p.m.

MichelleC wrote:

I very much appreciate seeing an informed opinion on what stresses might have been involved in this tragic case. However, TV3 it's about time you stopped using Bob McCroskie as a commentator on any issue. It's highly insensitive, when in this case, this is apparently non-accidental and he's a person that advocates hitting children and opposes measures in law to protect vulnerable children from assault. His ill-informed commentary pops up regularly on this and other areas and is always grating when we have highly qualified specialists in the area of family and social issues who never get spoken too. He simply doesn't deserve the air-time - give it to someone that actually works with or studies at-risk children and families.