Deadly 'hangman' game being played by students

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Sun, 21 Nov 2010 6:18p.m.

It’s a sensitive subject and not one parents and officals at Mansell Senior School wanted to talk about today

It’s a sensitive subject and not one parents and officals at Mansell Senior School wanted to talk about today

By Ingrid Hipkiss

3 News has learned of a dangerous “hangman” game being played by some young people in South Auckland.

At least two Papakura children have died recently prompting schools to warn parents to keep an eye on their children.

It’s a sensitive subject and not one parents and officials at Mansell Senior School wanted to talk about today.

Earlier school trustee Bruce Lardner told us a student had died unexpectedly but refused to comment further.

But 3 News understands it may be linked to a dangerous version of the game “hangman” which has become popular with some children; a game local kids are all too aware of.

“People think it’s funny and like it’s only a game and they muck around playing it and then they actually do hang themselves,” says Wendy.

“I’ve heard that two girls died from it and a couple of my mates at school were like, 'do you want to play hangman?'. I’m like, 'no, because I heard two girls died from it',” says Jesse Robinson.

Last week the principals of Papakura’s Mansell Senior School and Kelvin Road Schools sent warning newsletters to parents saying they had spoken to children to “warn them of a possible game that may be surfacing".

“There have been two deaths of students from other schools in Papakura recently.

“It’s important to be vigilant around your child at this time and ensure they remain safe.”

Teachers have also talked to students.

Wendy Savieti said teachers have said that “it’s not a good idea to do it because you’re taking away your life and you're only young”.

Parents and teachers will be hoping the students are listening.

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21 Sep 2011 09:34p.m.

Anomynous wrote:

The game was invented by gangsters. The person being bullied is made to believe that they are responsible for making somebody hang themselves. So they are encouraged to hang themselves. They get to the children by planting a no hands device on their premises and park up down the road and interact with the children through conversation. The children think they are going crazy and their guilt has overcome them to the point that their emotional barrier is broken. Grown men of the opposite gang wreck the youth to wreck the parents. They do it to grown ups as well. They also transmit the psychiatric unit patients to the device on live feed so that there is continual feed. These people are using Neuro Linguistic Programming and Neuro Associative Conditioning to brainwash the kids. The main word is ugly. They will hear it at least 100-500 times a day. It nearly happened to me.

15 Dec 2010 01:00a.m.

teenager wrote:

y its coz u parents arent good parents .n its coz u friends r fake .bt parents can also f ur life up . WHY coz they think their worthless have no social life parents r fckd up they have been abused gay n gets pikd on bullying sick ov been a slave coz they gt dumped by dea love wun parents r negative they show dea child no love. they have no1 they can talk to.

07 Dec 2010 02:04p.m.

NOGOOD wrote:

The community needs to get involved asap. Stop this s**t from carrying on. Help the kids who can't seem to help themselves. Tooooo sad :( and very wrong.

06 Dec 2010 11:57p.m.

Charlotte wrote:

knowing this so called "game" is within our suburbs aimed at our little siblings is very scary, knowing it all starts with a text message . and kids thinking they will win against this terrifying game just leaves me speechless . knowing that this person may or may not have thought about the outcome of this "game" testing kids to their limits to see if they will actually play the game . also tests the communication between parents their children and also siblings within families. also during the worst time of the year where its about giving and spending time with your family because of some ironic thought going through ones mind puts other families and kids in great danger making families worry about kids in their own home, not knowing if they will wake up to their baby the next day, going to bed thinking if your baby is next ?.. parents families brothers sisters aunties uncles nieces and nephews take care of eachother dont let one person ruin the rest of you and your families life. because saying shoulda woulda coulda will not fix anything if it happens to you and your family act now before another school kids accepts to play ! =[

26 Nov 2010 09:42p.m.

Alesha wrote:

Im not a parent but Im 18 years old so I kind of understand how the parents of the children in the target age are feeling (as I have an 11 year old brother myself). It is an extremely scary, painful and dangerous "game" that these children are playing (not just for them but for the families and community also). I too dont agree with how little information is being released on the issue. Parents need to know more so that they can help their children. This may be a little far fetched and take a while but is there not some way to try and trace the txts and emails back to the original person. I mean someone has obviously created this and to be honest, its sick. I dunno what was going through their head when they started it but I truly think that if we find the base of the problem then we could be able to stop it but in the meantime I think that parents should just pay extra close attention to their childrens social lives (who they're hanging out with, what txts and emails say etc). The children also need to be informed by their parents (it may scare them but in a way its a good thing). The children need to be fully aware of the danger and seriousness of the matter, explaining that its NOT a game. If the children are aware of the seriousness of it and the consequences then it could stop them from believing it and could prevent more suicides. I dont know, its just an idea...

23 Nov 2010 10:05p.m.

Andrew wrote:

As parents we need to gather together so that we can discuss how we can find ways to prevent suicides among our young people. As tangi was held at the local marae maybe our Papakura Marae can organise a meeting. Police, CyFS, School principals, parents, social workers, social development, kaumatua and local leaders (Callum Penrose) need to meet with the community. Then maybe we should start involving our young people and asking them for ideas - they have more knowledge of what is happening than many of us, adults. Like family violence we have to start saying "No more youth suicide". If anyone who is anyone in Papakura PLEASE organise a meeting. Let us work together to stop youth suicide. There is too much hurt happening for too long. Like I wrote earlier there have been clusters of suicides a few years ago - history is repeating itself and we are allowing it to happen. Let us learn from these deaths.

23 Nov 2010 08:05p.m.

Concerned Parent wrote:

I feel for all the parents that have lost their children to this stupid game...I went to the tangi of ANGEL HEKE and it was sad just looking around and see her classmates there sitting beside her and writing her messages of love on her lid...My heart went out to her father JOE and her siblings...It's so sad that we as parents try to protect our kids the best way we can, and still the game is there!...What else can we do?

23 Nov 2010 10:36a.m.

Tommy wrote:

Why is the media bombarding us with the mine story when kids are dying from a game called hangman thats on the "Internet" where it is said that if you lose the game (unsure of what the game is) a man says you have to go home and hang yourself and try get yourself out of it. It seems like a bit of Neuro-linguistic programming here. Getting the poor gullible and naive ones. Not suprised there is basically no coverage on it. Did you know that a 4th girl has now hung herself, just on the weekend.

23 Nov 2010 07:45a.m.

Andrew wrote:

What are our children trying to tell us? Children in Papakura have been committing suicide for years before this game and they will continue. Until we know why they are killing themselves and until we change what we are doing now -our children will keep committing suicide. They will keep sending us this strong message until we stop and listen to them. Suicide rate is a message to us: What are we as adults doing to our kids? What haven't we done? Why don't our kids talk to us? Do they trust us? Do we give them hope in a life that seems hopeless? Do we give our kids a reason to live? Us adults will provide support to our kids to cope and then we will move on. But our children do not rest as they find support from their peers and discuss the suicide events amongst themselves. They come to their own understandings and find their own solutions, right or wrong, unaided by those who are their teachers and parents. Keeping our heads in the sand is just not going to solve this issue. If we are going to solve this problem we will need to know the extent of the problem. Ignorance and wishful thinking will not make suicide disappear. Telling children not to commit suicide will not stop suicides. Like sex and drugs, ignoring the problem will not make them go away. Facing the problem together as a community, in a united front, is the only way we will be able to start addressing suicide amongst our children. Unfortunately time passes and we are faced with another cluster of suicides. We must ask ourselves if our interventions have prevented suicides or have they just helped us to cope with something we wish would not happen. Our children are taonga and they will go to the heavens above to be with their tupuna. And when we truly listen they will come to us and be with us.

23 Nov 2010 12:28a.m.

Worried!!! wrote:

I don't understand the media ..... you have supplied minimal information to us parents/caregivers regarding this "Game" - the kids are talking about this at my daughters school and how they would try the game!!! Knowledge is power and currently our children hold the power as we the adults don't know enough information on this!! I believe the media is obligated to inform us detailed information on how this game is operating and what we should be looking out for - some sketchy report on the News is not good reporting ..... All you have done is given these children who are doing/contemplating playing this game more power!!!