Hey Helena, Just found out about the news and want to let you know you've got my support if you ever need it. Just wish I was there to give you that hug you deserve. Be strong as I now you can be, love ya always!Jelley.x
I've just watch your interview and i can't help but want to hug you! I know this is hard and it might get harder but you know your family are here no matter what (;<). All the best of luck and love for you over the next couple of weeks Sis. I love & miss you so much, your lil sister xxx
Hey Helena, I am so sorry to hear what has happenned. I remember you full of life and I'm pretty sure this will not waiver that energy you have regardless of what life throws at you. Hoping everything turns out better. Thinking of you from across the Tasman. Keep your chin up Miss full of beans...Love Rau
Just over a year ago I found myself in a similar situation to Helena. At 38 years old I found a lump in my breast and a few days later it was diagnosed as malignant. It was a complete shock as I too have no history of breast cancer in my family. I was training for the AKL marathon at the time so was feeling fit and healthy, I couldn't beleive what was happening, it felt so surreal.The past year has been hard but everyone, from friends and family to all the doctors and nurses at the oncology ward and not forgetting the cancer society, were fantastic. I kept my goal of completing the marathon in my sight, and even though people thought I was crazy, I continued running throughout my treatment. I am now 3 weeks away from the marathon and feeling really good about it, even though some people think I'm crazy for running a marathon at all!
Any item that raises the subject of breast cancer in younger women is always important and valid. However, in the item about Helena , to say her relentless spirit and courage is unique is unjust and demeaning to all those brave women who face this cancer, and to any person facing any type of cancer. Please be cautious when choosing the words you use, as all these people show courage and a strong, relentless spirit. Four years ago I sat with my (then) 25 year old daughter while she received chemotherapy after needing a total mastectomy, and my husband is now also under going chemo. Every person I have seen receiving treatment in the onclogy department face their situation couragously, often cheerfully chatting to each other, sharing tips and coping strategies. I have no doubt that Helena is also facing her challenge with the same spirit. Goodluck to her and my family will hold her in our thoughts.
My heart goes out to Helena I can only say that with her vivacious spirit and cheekiness about her she is truly a positve person. MY love goes out to Helena and her daughter and no matter how hard it may be or seem im sure that she will rise above it. I'm a supporter of breast cancer awareness myself