What do we as a country expect of our young families? Do we want to encourage them, make them feel valued for choosing New Zealand over Australia?
Or do we expect them to struggle, scrimp and save, purely because that's what earlier generations have had to do?
Sadly, judging from the reaction to one young family regular Campbell Live viewers have become familiar with, it seems there is an expectation that our future generations should have to do it tough.
Watch Lachlan Forsyth’s report.