Over the last 24 hours Sunrise's Carly Flynn had the privilege of spending time with the Naitoko family as they gathered to grieve Halatau Naitoko.
Yesterday afternoon Tau's grandmother Matalupe Fuimoana let Carly sit with her to chat for a while as she waited for his body to be returned
She says now is not the time to be pointing the finger – now is the time to be celebrating the life of Tau.