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Parents warned of 'Cinderella Syndrome'

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Wed, 01 Feb 2012 4:00p.m.

Matthew Ellery and baby Serenity (inset)

Matthew Ellery and baby Serenity (inset)

Children are 50 times more likely to suffer abuse when unrelated adults are living in their home, advocacy group Child Matters has warned.

Child Matters spokeswoman Amanda Meynell told the New Zealand Herald international research shows children living in households with unrelated adults are nearly 50 times as likely to die of inflicted injuries.

The recent charging of Matthew Ellery for the death of six-month-old Serenity Jay Scott-Dinnington has highlighted the so-called ‘Cinderella Syndrome’. Ellery was the partner of the infant’s mother.

Ms Meynell said when unrelated adults share the home, the attachment to the child is “not so great” and the risk of abuse increases.

“They don't have the relationship, they may not have been there since birth with that child and so they pose a greater risk,” she said.

Parents should exercise common sense and caution when leaving their children around people they don’t know well, Ms Meynell said.

“We're not just talking about step-parents… boarders, friends, anyone that you have that's not related to that child.

“Be really careful about that, make sure that you believe that that's a safe person to be around children.”

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02 Feb 2012 11:51a.m.

jan wrote:

It mainly seems to be males abusing children/babies. When the women breaks up from her partner to whom she is pregnant she then seems to attain another guy. How bad is her self esteem that they need to attach to another guy so soon? Is it financial?, although there are guys who go seeking out women who are needy so they can control them. Sure other non family people abuse children, but the new boyfriend is the main culpret. Maybe tinman the bio dad resents being caught in the a family trap and then financial pressures, maybe in some cases drink/drug taking is involved and they really don't give a toss about anyone but themselves. In saying all this I know there are fantastic people who have taken on non bio kids and its worked well. It is just the scum people who are selfish to hook up with the solo mothers to get regular sex for "free". Thats how it looks to me.

02 Feb 2012 09:09a.m.

tin man wrote:

It would explain why so many children are systematically abused in CYF care, in fact the majority of kids removed from parents. It also explains why day care centres and other child care services are not appropriate places to off load infants enmasse while beneficiary mothers work part time. It does not explain however why bio dads are the highest risk to kids for abuse and homicide.